So, stemming from last week’s whole “Do we date?” It is clear the answer is maybe not. Last week we looked at all the things we see happen because we do not take time to get to know the person we call our ‘boo thang’.
That “taking time” is called dating. Oh yes, married couples go on dates (rarely) and when they do they find out about each other’s day or merely enjoy hanging out together (minus the children)! That is what it is about, finding out, understanding, meeting and connecting.
So if you were to go on a date in Georgetown, where would you go?
The botanical garden for some reason has been stained for the public displays of more than affection that people shamelessly carry out. But truth be told this happens in all public gardens around the world; Central Park, Manhattan and Jardin du Luxembourg, Paris are just two examples of famous public gardens that are also known for ‘creepy crawlies’. Ours is no different, not that it happens in clear open view every day in broad daylight. The garden is still one of the most beautiful squares in the city and a stroll around the lawns, to the manatee ponds, over the kissing bridges, just chatting is not a bad date and easy on the pocket. Enjoy the scenery of your own city. There are other parks and gardens. I would not recommend the National Park—not much to see—but the Promenade Gardens are superb when you want a quiet, serene place to get to know each other. And if you want something to do then take along a board game and just enjoy each other’s company. Actually, the first date I ever had was in the Promenade Gardens and to this day I still go there.
If you want to add something to the date, bring along some food. Not home cooked, unless you’re a chef and not Chinese! Finger food works best. If you want a place where you can hang out, have fun and get to know each other, order food and go sit on the seawalls, go to the gardens and play music in your car. Have your own picnic, but remember to clean up after yourselves and take your garbage away with you.
You can also go out for ice cream or pizza. If you want drinks then 704 Bar is the place. Gravity is on the list too, though it can get a bit on the rowdy side.
I once dated someone who always described herself as “fancy” so she only wanted to do “fancy” things and go to “fancy” places. I lost myself in wanting to please her every wish and tried to have “fancy” dates all the time. Losing yourself over someone so “fancy” is one thing but “fancy” dates are a treat, not to be done every week but for special occasions.
When you want a fancy date then do dinner and Pegasus, Silhouette or Grand Coastal are the places to go; actually any fine dining branded venue would do: like Princess, Duke Lodge and so on. I hardly have dates at these venues because as I said they are for the exquisite touch, of course they come with an exquisite price.
A less fancy occasion can take you to places like the Night Cap. I was there a few days ago. It’s one of the perfect spots in this city. Plants and flowers all around; the customer service is exemplary, the food not bad at all and cool breeze.
Double or group dating with a bunch of friends is not a bad idea either. And you can go to any of the places mentioned above, but the New Thriving on Main Street has become a popular spot for hanging with friends.
Dating is fun, it really is and you can make it a magical experience.
Dine in. Not on your first date of course but when you feel like upping your game. Order in some food; watch your favourite series (Game of Thrones!), play some board games or just hang out! Invite him or her into the warmth of your home.
Georgetown is not the most romantic city but trust me, you make your own experiences. Don’t just stick to the places I have mentioned though, find your places and keep dating… keep getting to know who you want to know, what’s the harm in it all?