One of the lessons we learn from a young age is that truthfulness is one of the most important values in the world. No matter the situation, we learn that being truthful is not only correct, but also easier in the long run. It becomes more natural to trust people around you when honesty is universally treasured. However, honesty does not just apply to those around you, it also applies to you. It is not unfair to wish to see the best in all that life brings. There is a special type of joy that accompanies the ability to look at the brighter bits in a glum day, or the better parts of a bad situation. But at what point does optimism lead you into the habit of being dishonest with yourself?
Being honest with yourself involves two things – sticking to the values that mark who you are as a person and acknowledging all of the emotions that you feel, regardless of whether they are positive or negative.