The Last Word

The importance of boundaries

As much as I have gone on in the past about the importance of putting boundaries in place to protect one’s mental state, for the first time ever, two weeks ago, the opportunity presented itself where I had to be explicit about them.

Rihanna celebrates the launch of Fenty Beauty at ULTA Beauty on March 12, 2022 in Los Angeles. Kevin Mazur/GI for Fenty Beauty by Rihanna
Rihanna celebrates the launch of Fenty Beauty at ULTA Beauty on March 12, 2022 in Los Angeles. Kevin Mazur/GI for Fenty Beauty by Rihanna

Fashionable resistance

The female body when pregnant has always been treated as something to conceal as if it isn’t going through the most beautiful experience.

Believing the victim

One of the most callous things we can do to a person who has come forward with allegations of abuse is to dissect the truthfulness of their story solely based on our relationship with the abuser or people closely connected to the abuser.

Privilege

Privilege is blinding. Sometimes it is hard to recognise because those steeped in it embrace it as a natural way of life, and expect everyone else to just accept its inescapable chaos and unfairness as realities.

Hair story

Every Black person has a hair story. Whether it is one of garnering ultimate self-acceptance in a society rife with nothing but contempt and ignorance towards the varying types of black hair or one that is replete with the yo-yo attempts of negotiating their way in and out of love with their hair all while simultaneously trying to gain acceptance.

Skincare is not a luxery

Skincare is not a luxury

Never in my wildest dreams would I have ever imagined spending an arm and a leg on skincare and dedicating so much time towards daily routines.

A pregnant Rihanna (eonline photo)

Baby news

In the most Rihanna way possible, sis made it known a few days ago that she was pregnant; she posed in an oversized pink Chanel jacket, which was left tastefully open to reveal her bump, and paired with baggy jeans, draped in jewels including an encrusted cross.

Practicing mindfulness

This past week has been awkward. My sleeping patterns have been misplaced and it felt like I subjected myself to an obscene amount of unnecessary screen time out of boredom.

Representation

“Black eye, black hair, black skin Black queen stand majestic with the black king Today I’ll sing you a black song, you need to hear about beautiful black things ‘cause Most time we hear about black, we hear about black magic and black witches Black list, black book, black market Black Friday, ya spend off your black riches I’ve never seen a doctor in black nor seen a black pill fi cure no black people But I’ve seen bush doctors like Tosh and Marley resurrect like a real black beatle Malcom, Marcus, Martin When you see Walter Rodney ask him.”

 Shala Monroque in Meiling for Harper’s Bazaar

Embracing a Caribbean aesthetic

Seeing clothing by Trinidadian fashion designer Meiling gracing the pages of Harper’s Bazaar US this week served as a gentle reminder of the soulfulness that is the Caribbean aesthetic.

Greening our lives

With COP26 dominating the news cycle, energy companies and our behaviour as consumers have come under the microscope once again.

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